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Finding a Way, Not an Excuse



We all have dreams and aspirations that we want to achieve in life. Whether it's working out for our health or for the aesthetics, eating healthy, starting a successful business, pursuing a fulfilling career, or achieving financial freedom, the path to success requires dedication, determination, and a refusal to make excuses. Lets face it, we’re surrounded by consistent excuses everywhere we go, and it's always someone else’s fault when we fail. Or so people say.


Something I have been giving thought to lately, and wanted to share with you all; is the powerful notion that “if you want something, you'll find a way and if not, you'll find an excuse. Pretty self explanatory right? That if you truly want something, you will find a way to make it happen, but if you don't, you'll find an excuse to justify your inaction. Sad to say that this is what has become the norm in our society ,many never gain enough self awareness to understand their mistakes, take accountability, unlearn their erroneous ways, and build for a better life. So what better way to give you as much value as possible, in the least amount of time than diving into ways to overcome excuses and unleash your full potential in the most badassiest way possible.




Identify Your "Why":

  • To break free from excuses, start by identifying your "why." What is the driving force behind your goals and dreams? What fuels you? What pushes you to go out and conquer the world? When you have a strong and compelling reason, you will find the motivation and determination to persist despite challenges and setbacks. You will use your faith muscles more than ever, when you identify your why, and become determined to succeed.




Set Clear Goals:

  • Without clear goals, it's easy to make excuses and lose focus. Set specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals that align with your vision. Break them down into actionable steps to keep yourself accountable and on track. One foot in front of the other will eventually take you to your destination.



Embrace a Growth Mindset:

  • Adopting a growth mindset is essential for success. Understand that challenges and failures are opportunities for growth and learning. Instead of making excuses, view setbacks as valuable lessons that can propel you forward. Embrace the belief that your abilities and skills can be developed through effort and perseverance. Despite what is being taught to our youth in many places around America; that you get the prize simply for showing up, that those who put effort and those that don't, get rewarded the same, life tends to reward those that move forward with growth as a goal.




Take Ownership of Your Actions:

  • Excuses often stem from a lack of accountability. Instead of blaming external factors, take full ownership of your actions and decisions. Recognize that you have the power to shape your circumstances and make choices that will lead you closer to your goals. When you understand that most of the things that happen to you are your fault, you begin to move differently. You are more cautious, more alert and more receptive to learning from your mistakes.




Break Down Barriers:

  • Identify the barriers that stand between you and your dreams. Whether it's a lack of knowledge, financial constraints, or fear of failure, don't let these obstacles become excuses. Seek solutions, gain the necessary skills, seek mentorship, or find creative ways to overcome these barriers. Remember, where there's a will, there's always a way.


Cultivate Discipline and Consistency:

  • Success rarely happens overnight. It requires discipline and consistent effort. Create daily habits and routines that support your goals. Stay committed to your vision even when motivation wanes. Discipline yourself to work towards your dreams, even when it's challenging or inconvenient. Do what is difficult now, and reap the easy life later, live the easy life now and reap the difficulties later on.



Surround Yourself with Supportive People:

  • In my opinion, Jim Rohn said it best “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”The people you surround yourself with can have a significant impact on your mindset and success, good or bad. Seek out individuals who support your aspirations, inspire you, and hold you accountable. Surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals will help you stay focused and motivated, reducing the likelihood of making excuses.


Learn from Failure:

  • Failure is a natural part of any journey. Rather than using failure as an excuse to give up, view it as an opportunity for growth. Analyze your failures, learn from your mistakes, and adjust your approach accordingly. Remember, every successful person has experienced setbacks and failures, but they persisted and learned from them.


Practice Self-Reflection and Self-Awareness:

  • Excuses often stem from self-limiting beliefs or a lack of self-awareness. Take time for self-reflection to identify any negative thought patterns or limiting beliefs that may be holding you back. We don't know what we don't know, but when we practice self-awareness and identify those limiting beliefs, it's important to challenge them, unlearn them, and replace them with empowering ones. Develop a strong sense of self-awareness to recognize when you're making excuses and shift your mindset accordingly. Taking accountability is key.






Celebrate Progress:

  • As you work towards your goals, celebrate your progress along the way. Recognize and appreciate the effort you put in, no matter how small. By acknowledging your achievements, you build momentum and reinforce the belief that you can succeed in whatever you set out to achieve.


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